I bought a macrame hammock swing chair and a steel plate ceiling mount that came with 4 big expansion screws (pic #1 is chair i bought, pic#2 is mount with included expansion screws. Mount is size of palm). I found the ceiling joist(joists are wood) and marked where I want the plate to go, but When I looked up how expansion screws worked, I realized that expansion screws can't work if you drill into the joist because the wood stud prevent the screw from expanding behind the drywall. The steel mount can hold up to 440lbs, the chain I got holds up to 1,000lbs. Iam a heavy person. 230lbs so I don't think I will sit on it but I'm hanging it for my kid who is 100lbs. I need to make sure when I mount this, it holds a lot of weight.
So, I have 2 questions:
Will the ceiling be able to hold a standard adult weight using the expansion screws if I don't use joist? ( else why would this be sold as ceiling mount for swing chair if ceiling could not hold the weight?)
If ceiling alone can't hold that weight and it's best to use joist, what type of screws would be best to mount the plate into the joist to hold a lot of weight?
I just don't want to mess up, do it wrong and rip out the ceiling when my kid goes to sit on it because then I'd be back here posting more questions about how to patch a hole in ceiling...haha...please help!

