I replaced the wax ring at the bottom of the toilet because it seemed like there was a slow leak. Since then, the toilet feels slightly unsteady when sat on. This is the second toilet I've replace a wax ring for and the first feels totally stable, so I don't know what to do about the second toilet. I've tightened the bolts a couple of times. I don't want to crack the porcelain, so I've been cautious about tightening the bolts. I've attached a pic of one of the bolts. I've considered getting a bigger metal washer to lay over the plastic washer, to be sure the metal is laying over the porcelain, but I don't know if that's the right approach. What should I do to improve the stability of the toilet?
UPDATE: Sorry about the pic. It's added now.
I disconnected the toilet from floor. The wax seemed okay. There was no leak. I went to Lowes and got a metal flange repair and one of the Perfect Seal wax replacements, like this:

The PVC flange seemed unbroken, so it seemed like I didn't need the metal flange replacement. I removed all of the wax ring that I had installed a few months ago. I laid the new Perfect Seal on top of flange and then replaced the toilet. The toilet barely sank. I'm not a big person, less than 150 soaking wet, pressed as much as I could. The toilet was getting nowhere near the floor. So I think the problem is the PVC flange itself. While unbroken, I think it's too far above the floor. I took off the perfect seal, since the toilet was nowhere near the floor. Back to Lowes, got one of those regular wax rings and tried like hell to get the toilet closer to the floor. It's better than the perfect seal, but it's still a little bit high. I looked and looked for one of the reusable plastic rings, as suggested in one of the answers, while at Lowes but all they had was wax rings and perfect seal like items. Now, I wonder if the PVC flange has to be redone. If I can find that plastic ring, maybe not (maybe it'll sink a little more?). Otherwise, it seems like the wax rings are a little too much wax. Anyway, the toilet is not leaking, it's also not as stable as I like, but we'll make it work until I have more time and motivation. Thanks for all the support. Great forum.


